I'll admit it: I love to see you naked and vulnerable. CFNM is a fetish I really enjoy. It's fun hearing about how you got into it and what you find so compelling about it. Everyone is different, and I want to hear all about your experiences. Or, maybe we create some new scenes where you get butt naked and I thoroughly enjoy the view, your reaction, and my excitement.
What we do in your session will depend on what you want to feel. Here are some questions that I'll either ask you or figure out as we explore your fantasy. What turns you on so much about this?
If you're curious about why I enjoy it, I'd say it's because I like my men naked and vulnerable. I thoroughly enjoy the power dynamics of CFNM. For example, imagine the unexpected requirement to be naked for your job interview or watching you squirm as a group of women look and laugh with delight at your naked body.
Did you know there are studies that show that for women, it's more embarrassing to have to strip than to have their clothes taken away? For men, it's precisely the opposite. You guys find it more embarrassing to have your clothes taken away from you. So that's what I like to do; undress you myself to maximize embarrassment!
After I've got you nude and exposed to me, I have many, many options for what I can do next. You can be my naked servant, bringing me the things I need or want while I read a book or do other things. Maybe you can clean my house naked. I might even spank your butt when you walk by me, just to watch it jiggle!
On the other hand, I could have you be my embarrassed stroker boy who loves the humiliation of jacking off naked in front of me. That's a very popular choice among CFNM enthusiasts and exhibitionists. Even though they usually find it to be humiliating, they also revel in the feeling of embarrassment and vulnerability of engaging in what's supposed to be a private act in front of someone else.
Did you know I have a BDSM kink podcast that I do with my friend Ms Erika? It's called The Weekly Hot Spot and this episode asks: Do you like to be naked and exposed? CFNM with Ms Scarlet. You can hear us talk about:
So what is your particular CFNM fantasy? Is it something I already mentioned above, or do you have something entirely different in mind? Whatever it is, I want to hear about it. So, strip down and let's get this party started. Did you know I do a podcast with Ms Erika? It's called The Weekly Hot Spot podcast and has something for everyone! Check it out! Here's the link on Spreaker: The Weekly Hotspot. by Ms. Jenna, one of the CFNM Mistresses here at www.getnakedforus.com Let’s take a look at the psychology of CFNM. The nude body has inspired fear, awe and many other emotions that are usually both conflicted and repressed. I believe beauty is inherent in all things if you look with what Zen Buddhism refers to as Beginners Mind. It gives Me great pleasure and delight to have My submissive strip down naked for Me while he’s under My control. I know that having him disrobe is a way to strip him of his worldly persona and, symbolically, of any residual armor he may have due to his ego. I enjoy the instant attitude adjustment usually accompanied by the barometer of arousal that he’ll shyly try to hide behind his hands. This behavior isn’t permitted. I generally will slap his fingers with My crop and instruct him to put his hands behind his back. It’s My personal belief that CFNM has an appeal for submissives seeking that level of vulnerability with their dominant. A person’s naked body, before you, reveals all those things he tries to hide. Some people spend their entire lives wanting to be heard, or to be seen, for who they truly are. As an individual. For others, it is their greatest fear. This search usually ends when they are in front of eyes that behold them in all their perfectly flawed beauty and unique complexity. When I look at My nude sub, it’s as if he is transparent to Me. I see his breathing, his blushing and, of course, his level of arousal. Nothing amuses Me more than seeing My naked submissive trying to scramble internally. To find shelter to hide from Me. Finally, all that resistance fades when he comes to the stark realization that there is nowhere to hide. There is nothing to hold on to ……..there is only surrender in his nakedness and submission to Me. There is a juxtaposition of emotions. The push and pull of those feelings that are opposed to each other. These feelings later translate to the peace of sub space once he relents to My will, instead of harkening to his internal struggle. I enjoy reading his body with My hands. I can find out intuitively what he’s been hiding from Me. Where his skin gets goose bumps from My touch or how he shivers when I taunt him about his helpless erection. What would inspire someone to seek out such an experience? I believe it’s the thrill of being completely exposed to another human being. CFNM represents the sexual tension created by the unattainability of the woman who is clothed and the utter vulnerability of the naked male. The submissive cannot hide his desire from the Mistress. She can take full advantage of his nakedness, having free reign over her property to do what She pleases with him. This loss of control and exposure is intoxicating for the nude submissive and soon he finds that he craves only this openness and transparency around his Mistress. CFNM is one of My personally favorite fetishes because I think it’s one of those foundational practices for creating a D/s dynamic that I find very enjoyable and worthwhile, to Me, when I’m training a submissive. Olivia
Email me at Olivia@enchantrixempire.com
Options for your CFNM fetish
Why I love CFNM
BDSM kink podcast episode on the CFNM fetish
The Psychology of CFNM
Nakedness Reveals All
CFNM: The Thrill of being Exposed
The Tension of Unattainability