Kay Marie

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Hello there, CFNM lovers! Welcome to Get Naked For Us. I'm your hostess Kay Marie, and you can leave your coat and everything else you're wearing at the door. You won't be needing it today.

As you've probably already guessed, I'm here on this site because I enjoy CFNM fantasies. I love wearing whatever sexy outfit strikes my fancy while you are completely naked. Perhaps it'll be yoga pants for me, or maybe it'll be a cocktail dress. But for you, the dress code is always the same. You should never wear anything in my presence.

I think this serves multiple purposes. Firstly, it reminds you of your place in the hierarchy. The person who's wearing the clothes is the one who's on top. The naked one is underneath her--and may be literally so before the end of the night, who knows? Secondly, it reminds you that when you belong to me, even the clothes you wear are a privilege granted to you by me. If I don't want to grant that privilege, you don't get it. You'll just have to go naked for the duration until I'm ready for you to get dressed again.

And then you have to consider the utility of having a naked submissive at your disposal. In addition to making you feel very vulnerable, keeping you naked also makes it much easier for me to do whatever I like to you, whenever I like, without those pesky clothes getting in the way. If I want to have you stroke for me while I watch, you can do so immediately without having to take the time to pull your cock out. If I want to give your balls a little flick with my fingers when you walk by, I can easily do that, too. It also makes it easy to check to see if you're wearing a butt plug or a chastity cage if you've been told to do so.

CFNM fantasies can also help facilitate humiliation. Not all clothed female, naked male fantasies are meant to be embarrassing, but many of them are. If you happen to have a small cock, for example, you having to walk around wearing nothing may be very humiliating for you because you won't be able to hide your shortcomings. And if I choose to comment on it (and let's be very real here, I probably will!), it'll be that much more embarrassing for you.

Finally, CFNM can be fun in a group setting as well. All the things I can do with you alone, I can also do with an audience! If you've ever had a fantasy of serving a group of beautiful Femdom Mistresses naked, I can definitely arrange that for you. I think my friends and I would definitely benefit from having you bring us food and drink while totally nude. You could perhaps even do a multi-Mistress call with some of my LDW friends and me to live this fantasy out!

CFNM fantasies never get old, and they present quite a few ways for a Mistress like me to enjoy her sub. So if you've got a clothed female, naked male fantasy, I would love to hear about it, even if it's not exactly like the ones I've mentioned here. I often reward creative CFNM fantasy ideas that I've never heard before!

So if you're thinking this sounds like something that's right up your alley, you need to give me, Kay Marie, a call today. And leave your coat--and the rest of your clothes--at the door!




The Psychology of CFNM


by Ms. Jenna, one of the CFNM Mistresses here at www.getnakedforus.com

Let’s take a look at the psychology of CFNM. The nude body has inspired fear, awe and many other emotions that are usually both conflicted and repressed. I believe beauty is inherent in all things if you look with what Zen Buddhism refers to as Beginners Mind. It gives Me great pleasure and delight to have My submissive strip down naked for Me while he’s under My control.

I know that having him disrobe is a way to strip him of his worldly persona and, symbolically, of any residual armor he may have due to his ego. I enjoy the instant attitude adjustment usually accompanied by the barometer of arousal that he’ll shyly try to hide behind his hands. This behavior isn’t permitted.  I generally will slap his fingers with My crop and instruct him to put his hands behind his back.


Nakedness Reveals All


It’s My personal belief that CFNM has an appeal for submissives seeking that level of vulnerability with their dominant. A person’s naked body, before you, reveals all those things he tries to hide. Some people spend their entire lives wanting to be heard, or to be seen, for who they truly are.  As an individual. For others, it is their greatest fear. This search usually ends when they are in front of eyes that behold them in all their perfectly flawed beauty and unique complexity.

When I look at My nude sub, it’s as if he is transparent to Me. I see his breathing, his blushing and, of course, his level of arousal. Nothing amuses Me more than seeing My naked submissive trying to scramble internally.  To find shelter to hide from Me. Finally, all that resistance fades when he comes to the stark realization that there is nowhere to hide.  There is nothing to hold on to ……..there is only surrender in his nakedness and submission to Me.


CFNM: The Thrill of being Exposed


There is a juxtaposition of emotions. The push and pull of those feelings that are opposed to each other. These feelings later translate to the peace of sub space once he relents to My will, instead of harkening to his internal struggle. I enjoy reading his body with My hands. I can find out intuitively what he’s been hiding from Me. Where his skin gets goose bumps from My touch or how he shivers when I taunt him about his helpless erection. What would inspire someone to seek out such an experience? I believe it’s the thrill of being completely exposed to another human being.


The Tension of Unattainability


CFNM represents the sexual tension created by the  unattainability of the woman who is clothed and the utter vulnerability of the naked male. The submissive cannot hide his desire from the Mistress. She can take full advantage of his nakedness, having free reign over her property to do what She pleases with him. This loss of control and exposure is intoxicating for the nude submissive and soon he finds that he craves only this openness and transparency around his Mistress. CFNM is one of My personally favorite fetishes because I think it’s one of those foundational practices for creating a D/s dynamic that I find very enjoyable and worthwhile, to Me, when I’m training a submissive.