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What the nurse says: "Remove your clothes and leave them on the chair; put on the robe with the opening to the front." What the massage therapist says: "Take off as much clothing as you're comfortable with and lie face-down under the sheet." What your date says: "Take off your shoes, make yourself at home." What the penis-addled brain hears: "Get naked immediately, hurry up!!"

Are you always looking for an excuse to take off every stitch of clothing in front of a woman - a woman who clearly does not have any intention of removing a single stitch of her own clothing? Because CFNM goes beyond simple exhibitionism or the desire for sex. What you crave runs a little deeper than "here I am, come and get it". It's an erotic power play for you, where naked = vulnerable, and clothed = powerful. I really enjoy that power - where there is no barrier between your body and my eyes and wicked intentions.

See that bit I mentioned above about the massage therapist? That was me for a few years, and some guys managed to strip off completely before I even finished that sentence. Not all of them were into CFNM, but it didn't take much to figure out which of them were. The regular naked guys would stand proudly (even when they clearly had nothing to be proud of) and boldly start a conversation to extend their time in flagrante. But those CFNM pervs always made themselves known by getting goosebumps, or flushing, or stammering a bit, maybe even covering their erections with their hands. It wasn't shyness about their nudity, but about their arousal by the situation.

Now think of all the roleplays we could indulge in with that dynamic. You are guaranteed to feel a little dirty and a LOT excited! These are few of my favorites -

  • Auditioning for a modeling job in front of an all-female panel
  • Yearly skin check by the dermatologist
  • Sperm bank donation
  • Duping the horny handyman
  • Massage client (duh!)
  • Lose a bet and serve at my party, naked
  • Diving at the pool, the plunge pulls your swimsuit off




The Psychology of CFNM


by Ms. Jenna, one of the CFNM Mistresses here at

Let’s take a look at the psychology of CFNM. The nude body has inspired fear, awe and many other emotions that are usually both conflicted and repressed. I believe beauty is inherent in all things if you look with what Zen Buddhism refers to as Beginners Mind. It gives Me great pleasure and delight to have My submissive strip down naked for Me while he’s under My control.

I know that having him disrobe is a way to strip him of his worldly persona and, symbolically, of any residual armor he may have due to his ego. I enjoy the instant attitude adjustment usually accompanied by the barometer of arousal that he’ll shyly try to hide behind his hands. This behavior isn’t permitted.  I generally will slap his fingers with My crop and instruct him to put his hands behind his back.


Nakedness Reveals All


It’s My personal belief that CFNM has an appeal for submissives seeking that level of vulnerability with their dominant. A person’s naked body, before you, reveals all those things he tries to hide. Some people spend their entire lives wanting to be heard, or to be seen, for who they truly are.  As an individual. For others, it is their greatest fear. This search usually ends when they are in front of eyes that behold them in all their perfectly flawed beauty and unique complexity.

When I look at My nude sub, it’s as if he is transparent to Me. I see his breathing, his blushing and, of course, his level of arousal. Nothing amuses Me more than seeing My naked submissive trying to scramble internally.  To find shelter to hide from Me. Finally, all that resistance fades when he comes to the stark realization that there is nowhere to hide.  There is nothing to hold on to ……..there is only surrender in his nakedness and submission to Me.


CFNM: The Thrill of being Exposed


There is a juxtaposition of emotions. The push and pull of those feelings that are opposed to each other. These feelings later translate to the peace of sub space once he relents to My will, instead of harkening to his internal struggle. I enjoy reading his body with My hands. I can find out intuitively what he’s been hiding from Me. Where his skin gets goose bumps from My touch or how he shivers when I taunt him about his helpless erection. What would inspire someone to seek out such an experience? I believe it’s the thrill of being completely exposed to another human being.


The Tension of Unattainability


CFNM represents the sexual tension created by the  unattainability of the woman who is clothed and the utter vulnerability of the naked male. The submissive cannot hide his desire from the Mistress. She can take full advantage of his nakedness, having free reign over her property to do what She pleases with him. This loss of control and exposure is intoxicating for the nude submissive and soon he finds that he craves only this openness and transparency around his Mistress. CFNM is one of My personally favorite fetishes because I think it’s one of those foundational practices for creating a D/s dynamic that I find very enjoyable and worthwhile, to Me, when I’m training a submissive.