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Something happens to me when I am fully dressed and a sub not. CFNM, is a powerful dynamic and one I enjoy thoroughly. When I instruct a sub to disrobe, I love to watch him. Will he do so slowly and sensually or fast while nervous. I know from there what direction I need to go. He will feel my eyes upon him with every move he makes. I will see it all.

A male sub should always be naked in my presence. I will order him to hand me his clothing and then I shall put it away. Where is not important.

Why do I love him naked when I am anything but? I want the option to play "with things," at a moment's notice. And believe me I do! Moreover the idea of him being naked, while I am not, is incredibly arousing. Some days I will tease him, keeping him in a hyper-state of arousal. His cock might be hard for hours. Edging on and off, he won't know which way is up. Other days, I will lock it up and take it out of the equation making his ass my toy. Being naked helps keep him in "subspace." It keeps him vulnerable, and focused.

By being naked, a sub is always reminded of his place and that he is forever at my beck and call. And that is exactly where I want him to be. He will look at me through different eyes when he is nude. There's nothing he can hide from me, and he will find himself opening up to whatever I instruct. He will not resist me whilst in the buff. Being only too willing to wait for my commands and obey. What do I have in store for you? Come find out.




The Psychology of CFNM


by Ms. Jenna, one of the CFNM Mistresses here at

Let’s take a look at the psychology of CFNM. The nude body has inspired fear, awe and many other emotions that are usually both conflicted and repressed. I believe beauty is inherent in all things if you look with what Zen Buddhism refers to as Beginners Mind. It gives Me great pleasure and delight to have My submissive strip down naked for Me while he’s under My control.

I know that having him disrobe is a way to strip him of his worldly persona and, symbolically, of any residual armor he may have due to his ego. I enjoy the instant attitude adjustment usually accompanied by the barometer of arousal that he’ll shyly try to hide behind his hands. This behavior isn’t permitted.  I generally will slap his fingers with My crop and instruct him to put his hands behind his back.


Nakedness Reveals All


It’s My personal belief that CFNM has an appeal for submissives seeking that level of vulnerability with their dominant. A person’s naked body, before you, reveals all those things he tries to hide. Some people spend their entire lives wanting to be heard, or to be seen, for who they truly are.  As an individual. For others, it is their greatest fear. This search usually ends when they are in front of eyes that behold them in all their perfectly flawed beauty and unique complexity.

When I look at My nude sub, it’s as if he is transparent to Me. I see his breathing, his blushing and, of course, his level of arousal. Nothing amuses Me more than seeing My naked submissive trying to scramble internally.  To find shelter to hide from Me. Finally, all that resistance fades when he comes to the stark realization that there is nowhere to hide.  There is nothing to hold on to ……..there is only surrender in his nakedness and submission to Me.


CFNM: The Thrill of being Exposed


There is a juxtaposition of emotions. The push and pull of those feelings that are opposed to each other. These feelings later translate to the peace of sub space once he relents to My will, instead of harkening to his internal struggle. I enjoy reading his body with My hands. I can find out intuitively what he’s been hiding from Me. Where his skin gets goose bumps from My touch or how he shivers when I taunt him about his helpless erection. What would inspire someone to seek out such an experience? I believe it’s the thrill of being completely exposed to another human being.


The Tension of Unattainability


CFNM represents the sexual tension created by the  unattainability of the woman who is clothed and the utter vulnerability of the naked male. The submissive cannot hide his desire from the Mistress. She can take full advantage of his nakedness, having free reign over her property to do what She pleases with him. This loss of control and exposure is intoxicating for the nude submissive and soon he finds that he craves only this openness and transparency around his Mistress. CFNM is one of My personally favorite fetishes because I think it’s one of those foundational practices for creating a D/s dynamic that I find very enjoyable and worthwhile, to Me, when I’m training a submissive.